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Dividing up by country makes sense when dealing with legal issues; it makes less sense when dealing with family structure studies. May need to think about that. -
Nat Gertler (
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15:20, 30 September 2009 (UTC)reply
I'm seeing two primary sections for arguments concerning children (and I'm not sure that arguments is the term we want, as this article is not about a debate but about a situation; perhaps concerns?) One is the concern that homosexual marriage will lead to more children being raised by homosexual couples, coupled with the concern over whether children raised by homosexual couples have lesser outcomes. The other is the concern that those children who are being raised by homosexual couples are left in a lesser position (in terms of benefits and stability) if the couple is not allowed a marriage that they would otherwise choose. -
Nat Gertler (
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19:49, 30 September 2009 (UTC)reply
It's an interesting point, because the basis of opposition to same-sex marriage often boils down to opposition to homosexuality itself. I've struggled with trying not to write sections that delve too much into the "homosexuality is bad, thus homosexual marriage is bad" traps that can weigh down an article. Nevertheless, it's an important foundational principle that can't be overlooked entirely (in my haphazard creation of
Same-sex marriage and Judaism you can see I left in a lof the 'homosexuality is bad' basis in the opening). -->DavidShankbone20:01, 30 September 2009 (UTC)reply
Move from main article
This overly detailed an d NPOV text was added to the parent article again. It is now cited, so could have something to be salvaged for here.
"In contradiction with the results of scientific research and the consensus of all the major professional organizations with expertise in child welfare supporting of gay and lesbian parental rights[1][2][3][4][5][6]"
(Adding to Yobmods sources above)This one might make for some balance:[7]
Except that very document argues against its own usage: "Our conceptualization has been developed based on studies of heterosexual couples and is, we think, appropriate for these couples; but we do not know whether it would be found appropriate for same-sex couples." --
Nat Gertler (
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19:28, 6 October 2009 (UTC)reply
Come to think of it, we have more problems here than that. The central claim of the sentence, " Focus on the Family points to academic studies which state that children raised with both parents, as opposed to children raised by single mothers, increase students' cognitive and verbal skills, academic performance, involvement in or avoidance of high-risk behaviors and crime, and emotional and psychological health", appears to be undocumented here; none of the findable cites indicate that Focus said anything of the kind. And if it did, then the relevant studies to include would be the studies the Focus cited. Then we've got problems like the use of the Fatherneed source; Fatherneed is not a study, and as with the ChildTrends source, the author distanced the use of his statements from making statements about same-sex couples. --
Nat Gertler (
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19:51, 6 October 2009 (UTC)reply
I don't see what's wrong with quoting David Blankenhorn, Institute for American Values or National Fatherhood Initiative (I don't really no much at all about these organizations, but they seem quotable for this). Also, we are reporting here. Why no Focus on the Family? I don't like them personally, but they are a voice in the public discourse and are not a fringe view, as they are popular, like them or not. Same-sex marriage and children is definately a controversial topic, whether it should be or not. Please don't make me stake out the middle ground constantly guys (I don't like playing devil's advocate either for that matter).
Ragazz (
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21:43, 6 October 2009 (UTC)reply
Oh yeah. As for the Child Trends study, it has been quoted by opponent of gay couples raising children. The study favors children being raised by both biological parents. Clearly that doesn't include gay couples, as well as single parents and step-parents.
Ragazz (
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21:48, 6 October 2009 (UTC)reply
"The study favors children being raised by both biological parents. Clearly that doesn't include gay couples, as well as single parents and step-parents." What you say is "clearly" is something that the research brief specifically denies as an application. If there are studies that say something about gay parenting, then yes, we should use them. But saying that Focus claims a study represents something when the study itself states differently is a separate question; it can be used to cover what the discussion is, but when it goes to the science, we cannot simply point out the citation of a study without pointing out that it is being mis-cited. There's a difference between documenting same-sex marriage and documenting the battle over same-sex marriage. -
Nat Gertler (
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22:35, 6 October 2009 (UTC)reply
Why would we cite
Focus on the Family when they aren't the ones conducting the research, but repeating it? Using advocacy groups as sources is discouraged because they don't represent the 'middle ground' - I would also say the same thing if someone was proposing using
Freedom to Marry's citation of statistics about how children of LGBT families are better adjusted than straight ones. I would want to look at the studies they cite, figure out whether they are advocacy studies or independent studies, and present the information if it was use-able (i.e. non-fringe-y) directly from the source. That seems reasonable, no? -->DavidShankbone21:59, 6 October 2009 (UTC)reply
It's a controversial topic. This needs to be documented here. Maybe there are no legitimate studies showing any benifit to having straight biological parents. But if opponents point to a study, even if their argument is BS, doesn't that fall under the category of something we are bound to report? Nat said: "What you say is "clearly" is something that the research brief specifically denies as an application." In the Child Trends pdf doc itself? I didn't see anything about same-sex marriage in there at all. Only that studies favored both biological parents. If studies show that kids do better with both biological parents, how is that not relevent? Anyway, this wasn't my synthesis, I saw it somewhere. I thought it was Blankhorn. Yes David, I agree Focus is not the place to get data from (and I think you guys know me well enough that I wouldn't think it was), that should come from journals, etc. But this is clearly a controversial topic (rightly or wrongly so) and this controversy should be mentioned.
Ragazz (
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12:12, 7 October 2009 (UTC)reply
Nat said: "What you say is "clearly" is something that the research brief specifically denies as an application." In the Child Trends pdf doc itself? I didn't see anything about same-sex marriage in there at all. As I quoted above: "Our conceptualization has been developed based on studies of heterosexual couples and is, we think, appropriate for these couples; but we do not know whether it would be found appropriate for same-sex couples." --
Nat Gertler (
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15:44, 7 October 2009 (UTC)reply
It could read like this then (if I'm not getting my info mixed up, I think it was Balnkenhorn but I'm not certain):
Those questioning whether same-sex parents are best for children{citation about Blankenhorn here} have quoted studies showing children do better with both biological parents{Child Trends source here} although these sources do not deal with the question of gay parenting directly.{cite Child Trends quote about application of the studies}
Ragazz (
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07:56, 8 October 2009 (UTC)reply
Does the source your mentioning (and I'm not sure which one you're invoking, today is not my day to go into the history of this article to find it) specifically invoke the Child Trends source? If so, then something in that direction might be appropriate, but the latter portion is misleadingly weak. It's not that they happen not to mention gay couples, they do to cast doubt on applying the study to them, so "although these studies specifically cast doubt on their applicability to same-sex couples." -
Nat Gertler (
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13:09, 8 October 2009 (UTC)reply
If opponents of same-sex marriage are citing a study to say straight parents are better than gay ones, but that study's authors specifically state that their study should not be used to evaluate same-sex couples, then that needs to be stated explicitly. -->DavidShankbone13:31, 8 October 2009 (UTC)reply
References
^Pawelski, James G., Perrin, Ellen C., Foy, Jane M., Allen, Carole E., Crawford, James E., Del Monte, Mark, Kaufman, Miriam, Klein, Jonathan D., Smith, Karen, Springer, Sarah, Tanner, J. Lane, Vickers, Dennis L. The Effects of Marriage, Civil Union, and Domestic Partnership Laws on the Health and Well-being of Children
Pediatrics 2006 118: 349-364; available online:
http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/cgi/content/full/118/1/349
^"What Is a "Healthy Marriage"?". Child Trends. Retrieved October 4, 2009. And a growing body of research indicates that children thrive best when raised by both biological married parents, as long as the marriage is not high-conflict.
Genetic Inheritance
It's well known fact about genetic inheritance and yet this article does not cover this important aspect very well at all. Why is this?
Yes - he only posted it here after I noted elsewhere that if it were substantial and sourced, it would be more appropriate over here. Which I did merely in the interest of being technically correct; I have no expectation that this would ever amount to anything substantial. We haven't even gotten the usual POV-pushers to try to back this. -
Nat Gertler (
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23:50, 12 October 2009 (UTC)reply
I'm motivated to interject a
Brüno-inspired joke about a gayby, but I can't seem to make any that come to mind actually relevant to the discussion. -->DavidShankbone00:47, 13 October 2009 (UTC)reply
WIKI another institution taken over by the gay community, how many is that now? Can i ask a member of the gay community to answer a question? - which is, what do you get when you cross a gay with a lesbian? or a lesbian with hermaphrodite? or 2 paedophiles? hmmmm, I'm sure kids across the world would like to know the answer to those questions. Or will this be DELETED again! Freedom of speech!? HA! —Preceding
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Erm, what? Nope it isn't, you obviously don't like homosexuals from your comment, but this is just a neutral encyclopedia article on the subject. And I'm sure that no one understands your question enough to answer it, as it appears to not make much sense. Best regards, Captain n00dleT/C14:09, 23 November 2009 (UTC)reply
It makes a lot of sense if children inheriate gay genes from gay parents. Have children been asked if they want gay genes? NO! Will teenages be asked if they want gay parents? NO! Children have no say in this whole debate which is criminal because they will have to live with the consequences. —Preceding
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121.44.251.147 (
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14:13, 23 November 2009 (UTC)reply
Again, this is not the place to ask for an education in genetics or discuss whether not-yet-conceived people should somehow be given the vote. This is the place to discuss the editing of this article. If you have sourced information, please produce it. Otherwise, there are better fora for your concerns. -
Nat Gertler (
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16:17, 23 November 2009 (UTC)reply
the Larry King transcript source
The Larry King source does not support the sentence that it was attempting to be used in support of regarding the citation of studies. The
Larry King transcript neither actually cites any of the specific studies listed, nor is Dobson even claiming to use those studies in objection to same-sex marriage. He is using them to speak against gay adoption. -
Nat Gertler (
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13:49, 16 October 2009 (UTC)reply
I don't think the source is being used to say "James Dobson says he read these studies", I think it is being used to say opponents of same-sex marriages have turned to studies, like these ones, to form and then back their opinions. -
Schrandit (
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21:08, 16 October 2009 (UTC)reply
In this context, I rather strongly believe that the source substantiates the paragraph and that even in lieu of that sentence most of the paragraph could stand without it, I am even willing to go out and look for more sources. In any case, I will wait for your reply. -
Schrandit (
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21:15, 16 October 2009 (UTC)reply
So what it boils down to is not "Opponents of same-sex marriage point to academic studies", but "one opponent of same-sex marriage, when not discussing same-sex marriage, says that there are studies, but doesn't mention them, but here are a list of studies and essays that say things that are kind of like what that one opponent of same-sex marriage was talking about when he wasn't talking about same-sex marriage, and these studies actually say nothing about same-sex marriage", is that it? Sorry, no the fact that one SSM opponent once used the word "study" in some other discussion does not open the door for dumping various irrelevant references into the article. The King source does not serve this sentence, and with that gone, the central statement of the sentence is without support. Most of the paragraph has been left intact; it's that one sentence which has gone away. --
Nat Gertler (
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21:25, 16 October 2009 (UTC)reply
If there is a reference after the word "studies", it means that there has to be real evidence of these studies, not just that Dobson said, "I mean, there are hundreds, if not thousands, of articles and studies in the journals that show that children do best when you have a mother and a father providing role modeling for those kids and who are committed to each other.". It is the journal articles that must be cited, not a rush transcript of something someone who wasn't even sure of how many such studies existed said.
Also, I feel that there is significant undue weight in the first paragraph of the body. The entire paragraph is about opponents of same-sex marriage in an article about "same-sex marriage and the family". I haven't put an ugly tag on it however.
Awickert (
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08:53, 18 October 2009 (UTC)reply
What is this article about, really?
It seems like most of the information belongs in
same-sex parenting and similar articles. "Same-sex marriage and the family" is an incredibly vague title, and I really can't see anything in this short article that couldn't be reasonably kept elsewhere.
Exploding Boy (
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15:33, 25 August 2010 (UTC)reply
Same-Sex marraige and family are two wholly different things. And this is needed especially because of the huge gulf between opinion and reality. being able to be *married* does not necessarily confer the rights to a child. Unlike other cases, where all you need to get a child is the right set of organs, the issues here talk about the specific challenges of getting married and having a child with a member of the same gender.
The article on Same-Sex parenting already ASSUMES you to have a child, or have one on the way. That page doesnt need to be clutterd up with the legal mess that gay parents go through, thats what THIS article is for. Two very different situations, even if they're related; we shouldnt put anything about Earth in an article about the Sun for just the same reason.
74.128.56.194 (
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03:30, 30 December 2010 (UTC)reply
Restoring Reverted Edits
I am restoring reverted edits on the grounds that (a) my edits were appropriately sourced; (b) organizations that disagree with same-sex marriage and/or LGBT parenting are appropriate primary sources in regard to disagreement with same-sex marriage and/or LGBT parenting; and (c) the organizations referred to as fringe or hate groups by another editor are neither.
184.74.22.161 (
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04:13, 28 November 2010 (UTC)reply
But the sources you use are very poor sources on the Child Trends material, which specifically did not specifically study same-sex-headed families, which would on later studies using this language note that lack of applicability ("Our conceptualization has been developed based on studies of heterosexual couples and is, we think, appropriate for these couples; but we do not know whether it would be found appropriate for same-sex couples.") and which has since - and before these articles were written -
shifted their language to "children fare best when they are reared in a two-parent family headed by their married, biological or adoptive parents". --
Nat Gertler (
talk) 05:28, 28 November 2010 (UTC) (adjusted for clarity --
Nat Gertler (
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18:35, 28 November 2010 (UTC) )reply
Also, FRC as a source is unacceptable, since it is a hate group
[1].
Disagree completely on
WP:UNDUE. The fact that Southern Poverty Law Center labeled FRC as a hate group is ridiculous, but I guess it makes some folks happy by giving them a basis to purge the encyclopedia of anything they disagree with.
184.74.22.161 (
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00:56, 3 December 2010 (UTC)reply
To expand, Same-sex marriage and the family is about political debates, where LGBT parenting is about LGBT families and should offer more detail on that such as demographics, etc...Phoenix of902:17, 3 December 2010 (UTC)reply
I share these views, too. Moreover, LGBT Parenting article was selected as Wikipedia 0.8 article and there is no reason to lessen its importance by merging. --
Destinero (
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08:43, 3 December 2010 (UTC)reply
I'm okay with this article existing. But as it stands, most of the info is outdated (other than the AAP statement from last year I just added), and nearly all of it feels like a rehash of
LGBT Parenting. I removed a reference to primary research that was outdated, had a small sample, didn't include gay male couples, and lacked a citation. There are lots of good secondary sources to look to here, like the APA, AAP, etc. If we're going to use primary sources let's use the most recent ones with the best datasets. I also think that there's too much material discussing parenting in this article, because that's covered thoroughly in LGBT Parenting. The section on divorce could be expanded, and maybe we could add research on other family topics unrelated to parenting. Thoughts?
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Dividing up by country makes sense when dealing with legal issues; it makes less sense when dealing with family structure studies. May need to think about that. -
Nat Gertler (
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15:20, 30 September 2009 (UTC)reply
I'm seeing two primary sections for arguments concerning children (and I'm not sure that arguments is the term we want, as this article is not about a debate but about a situation; perhaps concerns?) One is the concern that homosexual marriage will lead to more children being raised by homosexual couples, coupled with the concern over whether children raised by homosexual couples have lesser outcomes. The other is the concern that those children who are being raised by homosexual couples are left in a lesser position (in terms of benefits and stability) if the couple is not allowed a marriage that they would otherwise choose. -
Nat Gertler (
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19:49, 30 September 2009 (UTC)reply
It's an interesting point, because the basis of opposition to same-sex marriage often boils down to opposition to homosexuality itself. I've struggled with trying not to write sections that delve too much into the "homosexuality is bad, thus homosexual marriage is bad" traps that can weigh down an article. Nevertheless, it's an important foundational principle that can't be overlooked entirely (in my haphazard creation of
Same-sex marriage and Judaism you can see I left in a lof the 'homosexuality is bad' basis in the opening). -->DavidShankbone20:01, 30 September 2009 (UTC)reply
Move from main article
This overly detailed an d NPOV text was added to the parent article again. It is now cited, so could have something to be salvaged for here.
"In contradiction with the results of scientific research and the consensus of all the major professional organizations with expertise in child welfare supporting of gay and lesbian parental rights[1][2][3][4][5][6]"
(Adding to Yobmods sources above)This one might make for some balance:[7]
Except that very document argues against its own usage: "Our conceptualization has been developed based on studies of heterosexual couples and is, we think, appropriate for these couples; but we do not know whether it would be found appropriate for same-sex couples." --
Nat Gertler (
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19:28, 6 October 2009 (UTC)reply
Come to think of it, we have more problems here than that. The central claim of the sentence, " Focus on the Family points to academic studies which state that children raised with both parents, as opposed to children raised by single mothers, increase students' cognitive and verbal skills, academic performance, involvement in or avoidance of high-risk behaviors and crime, and emotional and psychological health", appears to be undocumented here; none of the findable cites indicate that Focus said anything of the kind. And if it did, then the relevant studies to include would be the studies the Focus cited. Then we've got problems like the use of the Fatherneed source; Fatherneed is not a study, and as with the ChildTrends source, the author distanced the use of his statements from making statements about same-sex couples. --
Nat Gertler (
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19:51, 6 October 2009 (UTC)reply
I don't see what's wrong with quoting David Blankenhorn, Institute for American Values or National Fatherhood Initiative (I don't really no much at all about these organizations, but they seem quotable for this). Also, we are reporting here. Why no Focus on the Family? I don't like them personally, but they are a voice in the public discourse and are not a fringe view, as they are popular, like them or not. Same-sex marriage and children is definately a controversial topic, whether it should be or not. Please don't make me stake out the middle ground constantly guys (I don't like playing devil's advocate either for that matter).
Ragazz (
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21:43, 6 October 2009 (UTC)reply
Oh yeah. As for the Child Trends study, it has been quoted by opponent of gay couples raising children. The study favors children being raised by both biological parents. Clearly that doesn't include gay couples, as well as single parents and step-parents.
Ragazz (
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21:48, 6 October 2009 (UTC)reply
"The study favors children being raised by both biological parents. Clearly that doesn't include gay couples, as well as single parents and step-parents." What you say is "clearly" is something that the research brief specifically denies as an application. If there are studies that say something about gay parenting, then yes, we should use them. But saying that Focus claims a study represents something when the study itself states differently is a separate question; it can be used to cover what the discussion is, but when it goes to the science, we cannot simply point out the citation of a study without pointing out that it is being mis-cited. There's a difference between documenting same-sex marriage and documenting the battle over same-sex marriage. -
Nat Gertler (
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22:35, 6 October 2009 (UTC)reply
Why would we cite
Focus on the Family when they aren't the ones conducting the research, but repeating it? Using advocacy groups as sources is discouraged because they don't represent the 'middle ground' - I would also say the same thing if someone was proposing using
Freedom to Marry's citation of statistics about how children of LGBT families are better adjusted than straight ones. I would want to look at the studies they cite, figure out whether they are advocacy studies or independent studies, and present the information if it was use-able (i.e. non-fringe-y) directly from the source. That seems reasonable, no? -->DavidShankbone21:59, 6 October 2009 (UTC)reply
It's a controversial topic. This needs to be documented here. Maybe there are no legitimate studies showing any benifit to having straight biological parents. But if opponents point to a study, even if their argument is BS, doesn't that fall under the category of something we are bound to report? Nat said: "What you say is "clearly" is something that the research brief specifically denies as an application." In the Child Trends pdf doc itself? I didn't see anything about same-sex marriage in there at all. Only that studies favored both biological parents. If studies show that kids do better with both biological parents, how is that not relevent? Anyway, this wasn't my synthesis, I saw it somewhere. I thought it was Blankhorn. Yes David, I agree Focus is not the place to get data from (and I think you guys know me well enough that I wouldn't think it was), that should come from journals, etc. But this is clearly a controversial topic (rightly or wrongly so) and this controversy should be mentioned.
Ragazz (
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12:12, 7 October 2009 (UTC)reply
Nat said: "What you say is "clearly" is something that the research brief specifically denies as an application." In the Child Trends pdf doc itself? I didn't see anything about same-sex marriage in there at all. As I quoted above: "Our conceptualization has been developed based on studies of heterosexual couples and is, we think, appropriate for these couples; but we do not know whether it would be found appropriate for same-sex couples." --
Nat Gertler (
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15:44, 7 October 2009 (UTC)reply
It could read like this then (if I'm not getting my info mixed up, I think it was Balnkenhorn but I'm not certain):
Those questioning whether same-sex parents are best for children{citation about Blankenhorn here} have quoted studies showing children do better with both biological parents{Child Trends source here} although these sources do not deal with the question of gay parenting directly.{cite Child Trends quote about application of the studies}
Ragazz (
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07:56, 8 October 2009 (UTC)reply
Does the source your mentioning (and I'm not sure which one you're invoking, today is not my day to go into the history of this article to find it) specifically invoke the Child Trends source? If so, then something in that direction might be appropriate, but the latter portion is misleadingly weak. It's not that they happen not to mention gay couples, they do to cast doubt on applying the study to them, so "although these studies specifically cast doubt on their applicability to same-sex couples." -
Nat Gertler (
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13:09, 8 October 2009 (UTC)reply
If opponents of same-sex marriage are citing a study to say straight parents are better than gay ones, but that study's authors specifically state that their study should not be used to evaluate same-sex couples, then that needs to be stated explicitly. -->DavidShankbone13:31, 8 October 2009 (UTC)reply
References
^Pawelski, James G., Perrin, Ellen C., Foy, Jane M., Allen, Carole E., Crawford, James E., Del Monte, Mark, Kaufman, Miriam, Klein, Jonathan D., Smith, Karen, Springer, Sarah, Tanner, J. Lane, Vickers, Dennis L. The Effects of Marriage, Civil Union, and Domestic Partnership Laws on the Health and Well-being of Children
Pediatrics 2006 118: 349-364; available online:
http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/cgi/content/full/118/1/349
^"What Is a "Healthy Marriage"?". Child Trends. Retrieved October 4, 2009. And a growing body of research indicates that children thrive best when raised by both biological married parents, as long as the marriage is not high-conflict.
Genetic Inheritance
It's well known fact about genetic inheritance and yet this article does not cover this important aspect very well at all. Why is this?
Yes - he only posted it here after I noted elsewhere that if it were substantial and sourced, it would be more appropriate over here. Which I did merely in the interest of being technically correct; I have no expectation that this would ever amount to anything substantial. We haven't even gotten the usual POV-pushers to try to back this. -
Nat Gertler (
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23:50, 12 October 2009 (UTC)reply
I'm motivated to interject a
Brüno-inspired joke about a gayby, but I can't seem to make any that come to mind actually relevant to the discussion. -->DavidShankbone00:47, 13 October 2009 (UTC)reply
WIKI another institution taken over by the gay community, how many is that now? Can i ask a member of the gay community to answer a question? - which is, what do you get when you cross a gay with a lesbian? or a lesbian with hermaphrodite? or 2 paedophiles? hmmmm, I'm sure kids across the world would like to know the answer to those questions. Or will this be DELETED again! Freedom of speech!? HA! —Preceding
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Erm, what? Nope it isn't, you obviously don't like homosexuals from your comment, but this is just a neutral encyclopedia article on the subject. And I'm sure that no one understands your question enough to answer it, as it appears to not make much sense. Best regards, Captain n00dleT/C14:09, 23 November 2009 (UTC)reply
It makes a lot of sense if children inheriate gay genes from gay parents. Have children been asked if they want gay genes? NO! Will teenages be asked if they want gay parents? NO! Children have no say in this whole debate which is criminal because they will have to live with the consequences. —Preceding
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121.44.251.147 (
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14:13, 23 November 2009 (UTC)reply
Again, this is not the place to ask for an education in genetics or discuss whether not-yet-conceived people should somehow be given the vote. This is the place to discuss the editing of this article. If you have sourced information, please produce it. Otherwise, there are better fora for your concerns. -
Nat Gertler (
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16:17, 23 November 2009 (UTC)reply
the Larry King transcript source
The Larry King source does not support the sentence that it was attempting to be used in support of regarding the citation of studies. The
Larry King transcript neither actually cites any of the specific studies listed, nor is Dobson even claiming to use those studies in objection to same-sex marriage. He is using them to speak against gay adoption. -
Nat Gertler (
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13:49, 16 October 2009 (UTC)reply
I don't think the source is being used to say "James Dobson says he read these studies", I think it is being used to say opponents of same-sex marriages have turned to studies, like these ones, to form and then back their opinions. -
Schrandit (
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21:08, 16 October 2009 (UTC)reply
In this context, I rather strongly believe that the source substantiates the paragraph and that even in lieu of that sentence most of the paragraph could stand without it, I am even willing to go out and look for more sources. In any case, I will wait for your reply. -
Schrandit (
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21:15, 16 October 2009 (UTC)reply
So what it boils down to is not "Opponents of same-sex marriage point to academic studies", but "one opponent of same-sex marriage, when not discussing same-sex marriage, says that there are studies, but doesn't mention them, but here are a list of studies and essays that say things that are kind of like what that one opponent of same-sex marriage was talking about when he wasn't talking about same-sex marriage, and these studies actually say nothing about same-sex marriage", is that it? Sorry, no the fact that one SSM opponent once used the word "study" in some other discussion does not open the door for dumping various irrelevant references into the article. The King source does not serve this sentence, and with that gone, the central statement of the sentence is without support. Most of the paragraph has been left intact; it's that one sentence which has gone away. --
Nat Gertler (
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21:25, 16 October 2009 (UTC)reply
If there is a reference after the word "studies", it means that there has to be real evidence of these studies, not just that Dobson said, "I mean, there are hundreds, if not thousands, of articles and studies in the journals that show that children do best when you have a mother and a father providing role modeling for those kids and who are committed to each other.". It is the journal articles that must be cited, not a rush transcript of something someone who wasn't even sure of how many such studies existed said.
Also, I feel that there is significant undue weight in the first paragraph of the body. The entire paragraph is about opponents of same-sex marriage in an article about "same-sex marriage and the family". I haven't put an ugly tag on it however.
Awickert (
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08:53, 18 October 2009 (UTC)reply
What is this article about, really?
It seems like most of the information belongs in
same-sex parenting and similar articles. "Same-sex marriage and the family" is an incredibly vague title, and I really can't see anything in this short article that couldn't be reasonably kept elsewhere.
Exploding Boy (
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15:33, 25 August 2010 (UTC)reply
Same-Sex marraige and family are two wholly different things. And this is needed especially because of the huge gulf between opinion and reality. being able to be *married* does not necessarily confer the rights to a child. Unlike other cases, where all you need to get a child is the right set of organs, the issues here talk about the specific challenges of getting married and having a child with a member of the same gender.
The article on Same-Sex parenting already ASSUMES you to have a child, or have one on the way. That page doesnt need to be clutterd up with the legal mess that gay parents go through, thats what THIS article is for. Two very different situations, even if they're related; we shouldnt put anything about Earth in an article about the Sun for just the same reason.
74.128.56.194 (
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03:30, 30 December 2010 (UTC)reply
Restoring Reverted Edits
I am restoring reverted edits on the grounds that (a) my edits were appropriately sourced; (b) organizations that disagree with same-sex marriage and/or LGBT parenting are appropriate primary sources in regard to disagreement with same-sex marriage and/or LGBT parenting; and (c) the organizations referred to as fringe or hate groups by another editor are neither.
184.74.22.161 (
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04:13, 28 November 2010 (UTC)reply
But the sources you use are very poor sources on the Child Trends material, which specifically did not specifically study same-sex-headed families, which would on later studies using this language note that lack of applicability ("Our conceptualization has been developed based on studies of heterosexual couples and is, we think, appropriate for these couples; but we do not know whether it would be found appropriate for same-sex couples.") and which has since - and before these articles were written -
shifted their language to "children fare best when they are reared in a two-parent family headed by their married, biological or adoptive parents". --
Nat Gertler (
talk) 05:28, 28 November 2010 (UTC) (adjusted for clarity --
Nat Gertler (
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18:35, 28 November 2010 (UTC) )reply
Also, FRC as a source is unacceptable, since it is a hate group
[1].
Disagree completely on
WP:UNDUE. The fact that Southern Poverty Law Center labeled FRC as a hate group is ridiculous, but I guess it makes some folks happy by giving them a basis to purge the encyclopedia of anything they disagree with.
184.74.22.161 (
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00:56, 3 December 2010 (UTC)reply
To expand, Same-sex marriage and the family is about political debates, where LGBT parenting is about LGBT families and should offer more detail on that such as demographics, etc...Phoenix of902:17, 3 December 2010 (UTC)reply
I share these views, too. Moreover, LGBT Parenting article was selected as Wikipedia 0.8 article and there is no reason to lessen its importance by merging. --
Destinero (
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08:43, 3 December 2010 (UTC)reply
I'm okay with this article existing. But as it stands, most of the info is outdated (other than the AAP statement from last year I just added), and nearly all of it feels like a rehash of
LGBT Parenting. I removed a reference to primary research that was outdated, had a small sample, didn't include gay male couples, and lacked a citation. There are lots of good secondary sources to look to here, like the APA, AAP, etc. If we're going to use primary sources let's use the most recent ones with the best datasets. I also think that there's too much material discussing parenting in this article, because that's covered thoroughly in LGBT Parenting. The section on divorce could be expanded, and maybe we could add research on other family topics unrelated to parenting. Thoughts?
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