Creating a place to put AlexR because it seems like I will need to be able to have this in the future.
I need to understand about WP Policy.
In Voice Feminization AlexR has been making repeated reverts (4 in less than 24 hours on 22 May 2006. These revisions revolve around two words ciswoman and woman (see Talk:Voice_feminization#RFC for summary of changes.)
I believe the content of cisgender was modified reprehensibly just to prove a point. Which I believe is against quoted policy. And the same policy states to act Civility but AlexR is rude, judgmental and is constantly belittling contributors because of their language skills or word choice plus using profanity (see history [1] 17:55, 22 May 2006 )
My question is, as a new user can I use the Templates in Template_messages/Disputes to get the offending and untrue entries looked at in cisgender and bring AlexR's dishonorable actions to light? I know I can be bold and just remove them, but I don't want to start another edit war with this individual. I want the constant reverts to stop and the arguments to cease. I hope that if I act rationally and civilly, even though I am less than a week and AlexR has been here since 26 Dec 2006, that I should be treated fairly.
And finally, there are also templates in Wikipedia:Template messages/User talk namespace. As a new user am I allowed to use them? Are there any guidelines for their use?
Thank you,
You said: "You were using the term ciswoman as interchangeable with woman". That is such a mischaracterisation that it is insulting. I made those changes precisely because you wrote "women" and obviously meant "ciswomen". And btw, I changed it to "cisgender" women, not that abominal "cisgendered". Same as with transgendered that is not a word, that is an abomination, since transgender -- and therefore, cisgender -- are already both nouns and adjectives. Also, ciswoman and cismen are not neologisms, they are analogously coined. I also can't really take your "that is what I wanted" serious, since if that had been what you wanted, you could have done so yourself. As for your civil-substs, you can put as many of them on my talk page as you want, I will just delete them.
You were insulting, both to me and to all transpeople, you have filled talkpages with mindless rants, you say I have done things that are the precise opposite I have done, you insulted me and lied about me, and you reverted the article several times just out of spite, with no arguments whatsover, to an incorrect and insulting version. And that is not even mentioning what you did in your previous incarnation. So if you claim that I have been incivil, that was at the very least a case of the pot calling the kettle black. Unlike you, though, I did not, while on the talk page claiming otherwise, state that transwomen were no "women" and transmen therefore are.
So you can cut the crap about agreeing with my work, because I sincerely doubt you understood anything about it. You at least did not understand what I said on the talk page. And regarding the welcome message -- I have never put one of those on any talk page, and I would certainly not put it on the talk page of a person who, just because she did it, claims to be an expert, and writes articles that ignore both transmen and non-transsexual transgender people, and then whines for days over edits to "her" articles. Sorry, but as far as I am concerned, you have shown no reason whatsoever that would make me welcome you here. Maybe that will change, but that would require some serious improvements in your manners and style. Until that admittedly highly unlikely event, I sure hope we don't run into each other again. -- AlexR 16:32, 29 May 2006 (UTC)
Well, I think I agree with Comander Keen, we should just let it go. Alex is obviously not interested in discussion, at least not without insults. I'm going to set my sights on my favorite articles, such as Pachuca, Mexico. Hope to see more articles from you. Czolgolz 01:56, 30 May 2006 (UTC)
It'll be interesting to see how Alex responds to this. Hey, are you the same as Voice of One, or different? 01:45, 2 June 2006 (UTC)
Well, I'm sorry that VOO dropped wiki, she wrote a good article. Alex tends to think discussion means being abusive to those who don't agree with him. Give my love to VOO and I hope to see more from you. PS If you read Alex's talk pages, it's funny to see him repeatedly warned by the administration (before he deletes them) Czolgolz 22:42, 5 June 2006 (UTC)
Well, looks like Alex took his bat and ball and went home. He's trying to make it look like it was you, but in reality, several editors warned him they were going to block him if he didn't watch it. So good for you for helping make wikipedia a kinder place. Czolgolz 02:36, 9 June 2006 (UTC)
Since I revert your "comments" on my talk page without reading, you can stop wasting my time and yours by staying away. I might also add that you have no idea whatsover why I left the German WP, so stop making up slandering stories. -- AlexR 06:32, 6 June 2006 (UTC)
You may add your comments if you'd like. Catamorphism 11:42, 6 June 2006 (UTC)
How about learning German? Your comments don't even make sense. And I don't want them on my talk page, so I delete them immediately. So stop bothering. And you might try to understand what you read, too -- your references to the reference guidelines don't exactly sound as if you understand them. Which is hardly surprising. And BTW, your article on Voice feminization still is very short on your precious references, too. So what exactly are you complaing about? -- AlexR 14:36, 5 June 2006 (UTC)
Hi FemVoice, thanks for your comment on my talk page. It does look like a problem. I think if a high density of someone's edits are personal attacks, and if they've been warned enough times, someone can make a request to an admin to block them, at least for a while. I may try to do that if things don't get better. -- Allen 01:37, 6 June 2006 (UTC)
I've entered this as a mediator, I'm not sure there is much debate remaining, but I hope we can find some form of agreement where everyone is, well, at least non-combative... Are you happy with the page in its current state? With the definitions of cisman and ciswoman included? I understand and share a concern with regard to the need for sources but like you said earlier on Talk:Cisgender removing this would probably make it a suitable idea to remove the redirect pages for cisman and ciswoman as well. Usrnme h8er 16:26, 6 June 2006 (UTC)
Whom do you think you can fool with your odd mixture of threats and your dishones compliments?
[AR] And who gives you the right to delete content from my talk page, and fill it yet again with your insincere rants?
[AR] Do you seriously expect me to just forget the lies you told about me and the slander you spread around?
[AR] You don't even bother to appologise for them and your harassment.
[AR] Mind you, I may not have been at my best myself, but I didn't get completely hysterical over two minor changes in "your" article and went out to harass anybody.
[AR] I can easily understand why you are hard to work with, after having been harassed by you for weeks.
[AR] I also intend to neither work "with you" not "against you".
[AR] You do not seem to understand that some people are here because they care about Wikipedia, not their egos, which must be your motivation here, judging from this remark.
[AR] I couldn't care less about you personaly, all I care about is whether you improve Wikipedia or not. (And, given your recent behaviour, whether you stop harassing me.)
[AR] Which means your edit will not be judged by the fact that they are yours, but by their content.
WHAT NO COMMENTS ABOUT THAT ONE?... hmmmm...
[AR] Should you, however, just because I refuse your offer of "working together" (something I sincerely doubt you would be able to anyway; and I certainly do not wish to have anything to do with you in the future), you start working against me, you will find yourself on the receiving end of of a dispute resolution, and in places where no would-be moderator can close cases just as he likes, either.
[AR] The same goes for other threads, like putting up Cisgender for deletion -- that has already been tried, and there is no reason you are going to be any more successfull.
[AR] The thread does show, however, that it is certainly not the improvement of Wikipedia you have in mind.
[AR] I really don't wish to spend more time on this nutcase case, but if you force me, then you - and you alone - are responsible for the result.
[AR] So kindly leave me in peace and stop harassing me. (That includes further deletions and/or comments on my talk page.)
[AR] It will probably be inevitable that we meet again, but I would very much appreciate if you would try to stick to the issued at hand, and not get personal.
[AR] I am definitely not interested in any personal communication with you. Neither now, nor in the future.
[AR] -- AlexR 20:27, 10 June 2006 (UTC)
Alex, can you please spell check what you are writing. I know you are a better writer than what you typed above shows.
1) no one is reading our garbage.
2) Even if they are, all they are doing is laughing at either you or I for beings so stupid as to carry this on for as long as it has gone on.
3) I am sorry for whatever harm, real or imagined that I have caused you. But keeping this up, will only look bad for both of us, and I would rather spend my time more productively.
4) Others have looked at what I wrote and said that Having read user:FemVoice response doesn't indicate anything that could be considered slander.
5) WE AGREE! But keeping this up, will only look bad for both of us, and I would rather spend my time more productively.
6) that I actually am feeding... ah, never mind - I am sorry for whatever harm, real or imagined that I have caused you. But keeping this up, will only look bad for both of us, and I would rather spend my time more productively.
7) EOD. I tried that a week ago, and was told that no way was I going to get away with it after harrasing you... Yes, I AGREE. EOD.
8) Wiki - nothing is ever gone... Besides, I haven't deleted anything anyplace - I moved things around, but I never deleted them. Even the stuff that you said was deleted, was just moved to the talk pages so that it could be looked at and evalutated for correctness and so that others would understand, I don't delete. Even here, I didn't delete content, I just moved what you had to this page. Unlike you, that deleted content on my talk page by the way that you... oop.. no, you are right - I did delete the lies and slander off of your talk page about me... but I didn't delete the warnings... you did that.
9) And this page will stay. It is easier than having to go through all of the comments that you have made that have vulgarities in them. Think of it as my wall of shame. I am ashamed that I even went along with your insults. I am sorry for whatever harm, real or imagined that I have caused you. But keeping this up, will only look bad for both of us, and I would rather spend my time more productively.
10) Whatever.
11) can you place the links of harassment and itemize them... better yet, can you source the reference for syswoman that is real and not a tag line? That would be far more productive than this...
12) "I am tired of trying to communicate with somebody who keeps going on and on and on with such behaviour" Dito!
13) "What you want is an acknowledgement that I am the worst person who ever walked this planet and a complete surrender to your imagined superioritiy. " No, I want you to go back to work and start acting like a rational human being.
14) "And frankly, the WP has seen so many nutcases in the past, I am quite sure that people are capable of making up their own minds about this case." keeping this up, will only look bad for both of us, and I would rather spend my time more productively.
15) "And, trusting in this, I think it is really time for an EDO" The Edo period is also known as Tokugawa Era or Early Modern Japan. I think you mean EOD. End of Discussion.
Creating a place to put AlexR because it seems like I will need to be able to have this in the future.
I need to understand about WP Policy.
In Voice Feminization AlexR has been making repeated reverts (4 in less than 24 hours on 22 May 2006. These revisions revolve around two words ciswoman and woman (see Talk:Voice_feminization#RFC for summary of changes.)
I believe the content of cisgender was modified reprehensibly just to prove a point. Which I believe is against quoted policy. And the same policy states to act Civility but AlexR is rude, judgmental and is constantly belittling contributors because of their language skills or word choice plus using profanity (see history [1] 17:55, 22 May 2006 )
My question is, as a new user can I use the Templates in Template_messages/Disputes to get the offending and untrue entries looked at in cisgender and bring AlexR's dishonorable actions to light? I know I can be bold and just remove them, but I don't want to start another edit war with this individual. I want the constant reverts to stop and the arguments to cease. I hope that if I act rationally and civilly, even though I am less than a week and AlexR has been here since 26 Dec 2006, that I should be treated fairly.
And finally, there are also templates in Wikipedia:Template messages/User talk namespace. As a new user am I allowed to use them? Are there any guidelines for their use?
Thank you,
You said: "You were using the term ciswoman as interchangeable with woman". That is such a mischaracterisation that it is insulting. I made those changes precisely because you wrote "women" and obviously meant "ciswomen". And btw, I changed it to "cisgender" women, not that abominal "cisgendered". Same as with transgendered that is not a word, that is an abomination, since transgender -- and therefore, cisgender -- are already both nouns and adjectives. Also, ciswoman and cismen are not neologisms, they are analogously coined. I also can't really take your "that is what I wanted" serious, since if that had been what you wanted, you could have done so yourself. As for your civil-substs, you can put as many of them on my talk page as you want, I will just delete them.
You were insulting, both to me and to all transpeople, you have filled talkpages with mindless rants, you say I have done things that are the precise opposite I have done, you insulted me and lied about me, and you reverted the article several times just out of spite, with no arguments whatsover, to an incorrect and insulting version. And that is not even mentioning what you did in your previous incarnation. So if you claim that I have been incivil, that was at the very least a case of the pot calling the kettle black. Unlike you, though, I did not, while on the talk page claiming otherwise, state that transwomen were no "women" and transmen therefore are.
So you can cut the crap about agreeing with my work, because I sincerely doubt you understood anything about it. You at least did not understand what I said on the talk page. And regarding the welcome message -- I have never put one of those on any talk page, and I would certainly not put it on the talk page of a person who, just because she did it, claims to be an expert, and writes articles that ignore both transmen and non-transsexual transgender people, and then whines for days over edits to "her" articles. Sorry, but as far as I am concerned, you have shown no reason whatsoever that would make me welcome you here. Maybe that will change, but that would require some serious improvements in your manners and style. Until that admittedly highly unlikely event, I sure hope we don't run into each other again. -- AlexR 16:32, 29 May 2006 (UTC)
Well, I think I agree with Comander Keen, we should just let it go. Alex is obviously not interested in discussion, at least not without insults. I'm going to set my sights on my favorite articles, such as Pachuca, Mexico. Hope to see more articles from you. Czolgolz 01:56, 30 May 2006 (UTC)
It'll be interesting to see how Alex responds to this. Hey, are you the same as Voice of One, or different? 01:45, 2 June 2006 (UTC)
Well, I'm sorry that VOO dropped wiki, she wrote a good article. Alex tends to think discussion means being abusive to those who don't agree with him. Give my love to VOO and I hope to see more from you. PS If you read Alex's talk pages, it's funny to see him repeatedly warned by the administration (before he deletes them) Czolgolz 22:42, 5 June 2006 (UTC)
Well, looks like Alex took his bat and ball and went home. He's trying to make it look like it was you, but in reality, several editors warned him they were going to block him if he didn't watch it. So good for you for helping make wikipedia a kinder place. Czolgolz 02:36, 9 June 2006 (UTC)
Since I revert your "comments" on my talk page without reading, you can stop wasting my time and yours by staying away. I might also add that you have no idea whatsover why I left the German WP, so stop making up slandering stories. -- AlexR 06:32, 6 June 2006 (UTC)
You may add your comments if you'd like. Catamorphism 11:42, 6 June 2006 (UTC)
How about learning German? Your comments don't even make sense. And I don't want them on my talk page, so I delete them immediately. So stop bothering. And you might try to understand what you read, too -- your references to the reference guidelines don't exactly sound as if you understand them. Which is hardly surprising. And BTW, your article on Voice feminization still is very short on your precious references, too. So what exactly are you complaing about? -- AlexR 14:36, 5 June 2006 (UTC)
Hi FemVoice, thanks for your comment on my talk page. It does look like a problem. I think if a high density of someone's edits are personal attacks, and if they've been warned enough times, someone can make a request to an admin to block them, at least for a while. I may try to do that if things don't get better. -- Allen 01:37, 6 June 2006 (UTC)
I've entered this as a mediator, I'm not sure there is much debate remaining, but I hope we can find some form of agreement where everyone is, well, at least non-combative... Are you happy with the page in its current state? With the definitions of cisman and ciswoman included? I understand and share a concern with regard to the need for sources but like you said earlier on Talk:Cisgender removing this would probably make it a suitable idea to remove the redirect pages for cisman and ciswoman as well. Usrnme h8er 16:26, 6 June 2006 (UTC)
Whom do you think you can fool with your odd mixture of threats and your dishones compliments?
[AR] And who gives you the right to delete content from my talk page, and fill it yet again with your insincere rants?
[AR] Do you seriously expect me to just forget the lies you told about me and the slander you spread around?
[AR] You don't even bother to appologise for them and your harassment.
[AR] Mind you, I may not have been at my best myself, but I didn't get completely hysterical over two minor changes in "your" article and went out to harass anybody.
[AR] I can easily understand why you are hard to work with, after having been harassed by you for weeks.
[AR] I also intend to neither work "with you" not "against you".
[AR] You do not seem to understand that some people are here because they care about Wikipedia, not their egos, which must be your motivation here, judging from this remark.
[AR] I couldn't care less about you personaly, all I care about is whether you improve Wikipedia or not. (And, given your recent behaviour, whether you stop harassing me.)
[AR] Which means your edit will not be judged by the fact that they are yours, but by their content.
WHAT NO COMMENTS ABOUT THAT ONE?... hmmmm...
[AR] Should you, however, just because I refuse your offer of "working together" (something I sincerely doubt you would be able to anyway; and I certainly do not wish to have anything to do with you in the future), you start working against me, you will find yourself on the receiving end of of a dispute resolution, and in places where no would-be moderator can close cases just as he likes, either.
[AR] The same goes for other threads, like putting up Cisgender for deletion -- that has already been tried, and there is no reason you are going to be any more successfull.
[AR] The thread does show, however, that it is certainly not the improvement of Wikipedia you have in mind.
[AR] I really don't wish to spend more time on this nutcase case, but if you force me, then you - and you alone - are responsible for the result.
[AR] So kindly leave me in peace and stop harassing me. (That includes further deletions and/or comments on my talk page.)
[AR] It will probably be inevitable that we meet again, but I would very much appreciate if you would try to stick to the issued at hand, and not get personal.
[AR] I am definitely not interested in any personal communication with you. Neither now, nor in the future.
[AR] -- AlexR 20:27, 10 June 2006 (UTC)
Alex, can you please spell check what you are writing. I know you are a better writer than what you typed above shows.
1) no one is reading our garbage.
2) Even if they are, all they are doing is laughing at either you or I for beings so stupid as to carry this on for as long as it has gone on.
3) I am sorry for whatever harm, real or imagined that I have caused you. But keeping this up, will only look bad for both of us, and I would rather spend my time more productively.
4) Others have looked at what I wrote and said that Having read user:FemVoice response doesn't indicate anything that could be considered slander.
5) WE AGREE! But keeping this up, will only look bad for both of us, and I would rather spend my time more productively.
6) that I actually am feeding... ah, never mind - I am sorry for whatever harm, real or imagined that I have caused you. But keeping this up, will only look bad for both of us, and I would rather spend my time more productively.
7) EOD. I tried that a week ago, and was told that no way was I going to get away with it after harrasing you... Yes, I AGREE. EOD.
8) Wiki - nothing is ever gone... Besides, I haven't deleted anything anyplace - I moved things around, but I never deleted them. Even the stuff that you said was deleted, was just moved to the talk pages so that it could be looked at and evalutated for correctness and so that others would understand, I don't delete. Even here, I didn't delete content, I just moved what you had to this page. Unlike you, that deleted content on my talk page by the way that you... oop.. no, you are right - I did delete the lies and slander off of your talk page about me... but I didn't delete the warnings... you did that.
9) And this page will stay. It is easier than having to go through all of the comments that you have made that have vulgarities in them. Think of it as my wall of shame. I am ashamed that I even went along with your insults. I am sorry for whatever harm, real or imagined that I have caused you. But keeping this up, will only look bad for both of us, and I would rather spend my time more productively.
10) Whatever.
11) can you place the links of harassment and itemize them... better yet, can you source the reference for syswoman that is real and not a tag line? That would be far more productive than this...
12) "I am tired of trying to communicate with somebody who keeps going on and on and on with such behaviour" Dito!
13) "What you want is an acknowledgement that I am the worst person who ever walked this planet and a complete surrender to your imagined superioritiy. " No, I want you to go back to work and start acting like a rational human being.
14) "And frankly, the WP has seen so many nutcases in the past, I am quite sure that people are capable of making up their own minds about this case." keeping this up, will only look bad for both of us, and I would rather spend my time more productively.
15) "And, trusting in this, I think it is really time for an EDO" The Edo period is also known as Tokugawa Era or Early Modern Japan. I think you mean EOD. End of Discussion.